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Why Men Should Always Take Charge When On Dates With Women. Knowing what you want in life and a partner is not enough for a date to go well. Many women complain that the dates they go on don’t end up as they expected and they don’t know why.

One of the reasons is because they tried to lead the date from start to finish. Yes, these days it’s normal to have gender roles switched from time to time.

However, men still feel more comfortable when they take the lead on a date. If a woman notices this and lets the guy she went out with taking the lead, the date might go much better, and here’s why:

Men need to take charge on dates with women or she will end up having little respect for you

Dave

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Men Need To Take Charge on Dates

Men Like the Chase. One thing is true, men are very goal-oriented. If they want something they still don’t have, they can be very persistent until they get what they wanted.

This, of course, applies to women too. When a man is interested in a woman, he will try to do everything he can to draw her attention. This becomes harder when a woman is trying to take the lead on a date, not giving much space for the man to court her.

If the woman is not playing hard to get, but the man is already interested in her, he will still try to pursue her, but the feeling of chase won’t be there the same way as if she were making it difficult for him.

Both men and women should consider that one date is not enough to establish if they are really interested in each other or not.

Women tend to assess this issue faster than men, which means that men should take the lead when it comes to choosing what to do on a date and if there should be a second or even third date.

This way, men will know for sure that they are interested in a certain woman, instead of just agreeing to go out with her a second time because she asked and he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings.

She Will Take Charge if You Don’t

Men need to show they are interested in a woman. Men tend to see the easy side of things more clearly. If they are interested in a woman, they will do everything they can to go out with her.

Women do almost the opposite thing. They overanalyze everything so they give men signs instead of telling them directly they are interested.

A man has the need to be direct about his feelings, so if he takes the lead on a date he will be in his comfort zone when the time to share his feelings comes.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that men don’t like appreciation for their efforts. They do, but this appreciation shouldn’t come in a dominant way when he is on a date. They should resemble incentives to tell the man that he should be taking the lead.

Men need to feel respected. Studies have shown that one of the things men most value is respect. If a man doesn’t feel respected by a woman, he will immediately not be as interested in her as before.

Nowadays, this notion of respect has fallen into a grey area, because everyone puts their independence first. However, respecting someone doesn’t mean that you will lose your right to an opinion, and men certainly don’t think things like that.

A man will want to feel that the woman he’s on a date with respects him. This also means that, when it comes to choosing where to go, what to eat, or what to do, she will trust his opinion enough to easily let him take the lead on the date. Feeling respected is one of the ways men can feel appreciated.

Men need to feed their pride

Pride is a trait present in human beings, and while women have their pride too, men are known to be more comfortable in showing it to the outside world and holding on to it, and maintaining it.

Consequently, men care very much about the image they portray to others, which means that, if a man takes the lead on dates, this will give him an opportunity to show how he presents himself and interacts with the world around him.

When a man notices that his date is comfortable with his decisions and appreciates his efforts, his pride will swell, making him feel more confident, but be more interested in the woman they are on a date with as well.

Men like to take the tone of dates to avoid over-eagerness
One of the things men dislike the most when they go on their first dates with a woman is that she shows too much eagerness, which can come across as desperate.

Sometimes, women start discussing right on the first or second date, what are her plans with the man she went out with for the distant future. She may suggest where they might get a house to live together, how many children they could have, and when they should get married.

All of this said too soon can be a big turn-off. No one likes to be pressured, especially men. Because they already half expect women to do this on the first dates, men make an extra effort to dictate the tone of the dates to precisely avoid discussing those deep serious life topics.

By taking the lead on dates, men will be able to control the over-eagerness a woman might show. If he is successful, the chances of setting up a second date with the same woman become higher.

This woman, who initially might have come off as desperate, will realize that she will have other opportunities to be with that man and deepen their relationship with time.

Much like women, men want the dates they go on to be successful, which means they will have to bring in they are contributing and the best way they can do it is by taking charge. It will boost their confidence and let women know how much they are interested in them.

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