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Online dating has already become almost impossible for men to navigate. It’s got to the point where the vast majority of men who try to use any dating app, will receive literally zero matches.

You might think this is ridiculous, but it is 100% true. A small number of men who use any online dating app will attract the majority of women on that dating site, while the rest of the men on each online dating site will find themselves spending the money that supports the site.

Let me explain. When a man is handsome, he naturally doesn’t need to spend money on any online dating app, simply because he will receive enough matches and subsequent dates by using a free profile.

The owners of these online dating apps have all designed their algorithms in a way that promotes the most popular profiles and punishes unpopular profiles (which makes perfect sense if this was a social media app, but it’s not.

80% of men are being screwed by online dating companies and it’s disgusting. Learn cold approach instead

Dave

20% of Men in Online Dating Get All The Girls

So, a handsome guy who’s popular on these online dating apps will receive extra juice within the algorithm, which will act like a paid profile.

In fact, some free profiles will receive so many matches and reach within an online dating app, that it will behave like an extremely expensive online dating app. This means that good-looking men are getting a free ride.

Who’s paying for this free ride that’s been rewarding handsome men for years?

Men who are in the bottom 80% of attractiveness, according to mate value on these online dating apps. Think about it this way. Imagine that you joined an online dating app, started up your profile, and received no semi-attractive female matches.

Imagine that you are an above-average man, who is getting matches with girls who are way below your mate value. You would think this was unfair, you might choose to continue to battle away with a free profile, which is something many men choose to do.

However, a huge percentage of the men who use online dating platforms will decide to at least try the cheapest paid option on any online dating platform.

And these men are the majority of people keeping these online dating companies financially afloat. Some men have been know to have paid thousands of dollars into these online dating apps in order to ONLY get a match and possibly a date, while good-looking guys have a free ride.

Less attractive men are funding online dating apps ability to remain financially viable, while handsome men get a free ride. And these online dating companies don’t care.

Dave

99% of Women Use Free Profiles in Online Dating

This should not come as a shock to everyone out there, it’s just female nature not to do the courting.

Men do the majority of courting these days, it’s extremely rare for a woman to cold approach a guy and ask him out on a date, she’s more likely to just sit in the corner and smile in his direction (hoping he will cold approach her).

This is the same behavior women have in online dating. They start up a free profile and swipe on a few of the absolute hottest guys they see while rejecting up to 90% of the other men.

Then these women just see what happens, there’s no urgency from women to find a date immediately, most of them don’t really care, they behave as if there’s all the time in the world.

You know how some women read their horoscope and believe in ”the secret” lol. They say things like if it happens, it was meant to be, if it doesn’t, I guess it was fate.

Because of this natural behavior by women, they are far less likely to pay for a paid profile. And if handsome guys are getting all the love within the algorithm and also all the matches, then whos funding these online dating apps?

Hang on, well, I’m making the assumption (without solid data) that online dating apps would struggle financially if only handsome men were allowed to just take all the matches with women, while the bottom 80% of men refused to pay a single cent to use any paid profile.

This is an assumption I’m making that I dare say is solid reasoning. Would these online dating apps survive if the majority of men out there woke up and stopped paying for paid profiles?

Online dating companies would change the algorithm if the bottom 80% of men refused to spend any money on their paid profiles. Even then, cold approach would still be a superior strategy.

Dave

Online Dating Apps Lie About The Amount of Women on their Platforms

Before we get started, I’m a left leaning straight man who believes that the LGBTQI community has the right to do whatever they like and I totally support their freedom to do so. So, please don’t take any of this the wrong way.

Let’s address the weird images on this blog post. These individuals are clearly not biological women and therefore a straight man would never be interested in these individuals.

Obviously. Yet, these online dating companies have not put in place a new type of profile for gay men or trans men. Why would they do this?

Well, it’s quite obvious that if this company can catagorise these men as ”women”, then it only serves the online dating apps to do so.

As it give them the ability to pad out the amount of women they have of their platform, when in fact a large percentage are biological men.

How Men Choose Girls Online Dating

You might think that us men methodically go through each and every profile we come across, reading the bio of every girl before taking the time to carefully choose each and every girl we want to match with.

If you think this, you will be very disappointed with the reality.

I’ll tell you exactly how men choose girls online, it’s literally this simple.

Every man swipes right on every single profile without even looking at it. That’s right. Let me double down on this for you. Men don’t even look at the profiles they’re trying to match with. It’s true and I can explain why.

Online Dating Apps Exploit Men’s Online Behavior

If the vast majority of girls are not going to match with him, why the hell would he be methodically choosing girls?

How wouldn’t… It would become a full time job, you’d have to check in at 9am start swiping, then check out at 5pm with sore eye balls and fingers from checking every profile for the past 8 hours straight, only to receive a grand total of ONE MATCH for the effort.

You think we are all stupid don’t you.. lol

This is partly why men think to themselves, screw this, I’ll just pay the damn app for more juice in the algorithm. Then the cycle starts all over again doesn’t it. What a nightmare, we already covered why that’s a bad idea.

Men swipe right on EVERYTHING and only look at the matches they receive (if any). Which is common sense when you realise what we are up against.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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