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What Does The Manosphere Mean By a Blue Pilled Man? According to bluepillers ideology, both girls and boys are attracted to one another physically because of their personalities.
If you can’t find a girl for dating, you should work on yourself to improve your look and social status. They believe that almost everybody finds love. But both boys and girls have to struggle pretty much for dating.
Blue Pilled Men believe that though social status, money, and looks do matter, these are not everything for a successful relationship or date. How much truth is there in their beliefs?
Blue Pill Dating Advice
What opinions do bluepillers have about gender and relationship issues? Plus, what do bluepillers think about boys’ and girls’ behavior regarding dating? Do they really believe that women aren’t picky about guys’ looks?
Let’s dive deeper and try to explain what type of relationships do they think girls and boys should have…
What is the Manosphere?
Before we talk about what bluepillers think about Manosphere, let’s first talk about what is manosphere… The manosphere is an online network of different communities of guys who spread sexist beliefs and anti-feminist content.
They blame feminists and women for different types of problems in society. Their approach to blaming a girl varies from one community to another. Below are 4 main groups:
Men’s Rights Activists (MRAs): This community supports political changes to benefit men. Much of their activism revolves around the harassment of feminists and abuse of female public figures.
Pick-up Artists (PUAs): Guys with this belief come up with different seduction strategies to make them successful in order to attract women. However, many of such techniques consist of mistreating women by disregarding or insulting them.
Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW): Men with this ideology argue that girls are so toxic and all men should ignore them completely. Men should neither married to them nor make them close friends.
Involuntary Celibates (incels): Incels consider themselves entitled to a relationship with a girl but can’t find a partner. This group is attributed to plenty of serious crimes like murder.
The Red Pill VS The Blue Pill
To understand bluepillers’ behavior, you should be familiar with the ideology of redpillers. According to redpillers, women are hypergamous and go on a date after considering multiple preferences in guys.
They pick up the most attractive guys for dating. Then, they leave a guy at any moment as soon as a better-looking man appears in their lives.
Redpillers believe that men are polygamous and should be alphas.
Instead of emotional attachment to a single girl, try to have sex with as many girls as possible. They think that men – women love doesn’t exist on equal ground.
That’s why men should emotionally distance themselves from girls and make themselves unavailable to them. In simple words, the red-pilled men advocate the manosphere.
On the other hand, the Blue Pilled Men criticize the ideology of TRP. They think that both boys and girls are attracted to each other physically because of their personalities.
Their love is genuine that doesn’t entirely depend on money, appearance, and social status. They believe that both genders have to struggle pretty much for finding their desired date.
However, if you are unable to find a date, improve yourself and then approach girls. Let’s talk about what blue pilled men think about the manosphere…
What Does the Manosphere Mean By a Blue Pilled Man?
Blue-pilled men don’t blame women as redpillers do. They believe that real love exists between boys and girls. However, you will still have to do plenty of things to make your relationship much deeper.
Thinking about sex all the time makes a man a horny animal. Such men dehumanize themselves and they blame women for nothing.
Both girls and boys should have long terms goals for a long-lasting relationship. For example, some guys do nothing but sleep, wake up, go to college, then come back home to their moms basement and play video games all the time and sleep again.
They keep doing it repeatedly and wasting their time. Do you think that guys with such behavior can attract girls?
This behavior is extremely unattractive for almost every girl. They won’t be settled for someone who is not serious about his career and wasting his life.
Instead of preferring good-looking guys, many girls love ones who are passionate about their dreams. The majority of guys who do nothing in their life join redpill communities and promote anti-feminist content on the internet.
You will hardly find a girl from a religious community with the same mindset as redpill communities describe.
Most spiritual girls save themselves for marriage and don’t sleep with any guy no matter how attractive he is or what social status he has. However, such girls want the same thing from a guy.
The guy must share the same values as she has. For example, guys have to show genuine interest in the religion, meet with her family, and win the heart of her parents. And, all these things are very hard to be faked.
You can find many such couples around you who have never been in any relationship prior to wedlock.
Blue Pilled Men Don’t Understand How Females Think
No doubt, love, at first sight, is started just because of a look. However, it won’t be long-lasting if you do nothing for your love.
For instance, if you don’t respect your girl, she will definitely look for a guy who respects her.
I’ve seen many model-level beautiful girls with average-attractive guys.
All girls are not insanely picky and they drop a very handsome guy over nothing at all. For example, a guy who is beautiful but what if he doesn’t spend his free time with his girl? Obviously, it’s not acceptable behavior for everyone.
Redpillers think that girls drop their guys when they find better ones in terms of look, money, and social status. This claim isn’t 100% true. Because we have seen many successful relationships between an average-looking poor guy with a beautiful rich girl.
Both male and females have their own preferences and both go with them. Instead of talking about girls’ preferences, let’s talk about boys who are advocating the redpill ideology.
You have two options: first, an extremely beautiful girl with an amazing figure, and second, a fat and average-looking girl but with an extremely loving girl. Which girl will you choose?
Some may go with the model girl and others may go with a fat girl. Why? Because every boy has his own priorities.
The same ideas are true in the case of girls. Therefore, instead of blaming women, redpillers should work on themselves to attract women.
However, both girls and boys shouldn’t look at appearance, money, and social status. Because these are not permanent. Go with a person who is respectful, caring, and always ready to spend their time with you.
Instead of dehumanizing the opposite sex, everyone should discuss their issues with each other without pointing fingers. It’s very difficult to decide who is right between manosphere and bluepillers. Because both communities have tons of arguments in their favor.
No one should dehumanize the opposite sex. Treating each other as human beings will resolve almost 90% of issues. You must listen to the other side more to sort out your problems. It will be very helpful for long-lasting relationships.
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