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Should You Text Every Day After First Date or Not?. The first date is usually surrounded by tension and confusion, whether before it, during it, or in the period that follows it.

This article is specifically about the period that follows it and why it is considered a sensitive period because things must be resolved, and you should know how to behave in it appropriately in general.

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Texting Her within 24 Hours After the First date

Sometimes, If you’ve had one of the single best times of your life and you know your date had a special time too, then there’s nothing wrong in texting her that night. But how sure are you that she likes you?

Did she show her interest in seeing you again? or say something like ‘I can’t wait to see you again’ or ‘I think I really miss you’?

If you’re not sure if she had a good time with you, but you really want to let her know you want to see her again and that you had a good time, send her a text thanking her for a great date.

By doing so, you open the door to a conversation. And you can know it easily from her quick responses if she wants to talk to you.

You can text her within 24 hours after the date, maybe in the morning or after returning at night. It means that the period should not exceed a few hours.

Give yourself a chance to relax, but generally it is important to formally express your feelings about meeting her again and getting to know her on a deeper level.

You may or may not be holding your phone and wishing you could talk to her. But in the meantime, you may have heard of the old dating rule, “wait a couple of days before texting her”.

Well, if you want a short answer of when you should text her after your first date? Then my best advice for men, in general, is to text her whenever you want to. Remember that women have feelings, too.

How Often Should I Text Her After Our Date?

You can’t play games following a book you had read about dating (like mine ;)) and then, wait a few more days (be patient) before texting her, even if you really miss this woman and want to talk to her.

Because women don’t like being hounded via text, nor do they like to be kept waiting. The first few moments of excitement, from a womans point of view can turn into frustration and even anger.

Let’s say you liked your date and you had a great time with her, then before leaving tell her you had a great time and would like to see her again soon.

Be magnanimous and vaguely specific about contacting her soon. ‘I’ll see you soon…’ or ‘I’ll talk to you soon…’ Delightful and warm ways to end a conversation.

What begins as a text could then lead to one of you calling the other at the same night, and even could lead to a date in the next couple of days. Women love the guy who got back in touch with them that very night.

It removes uncertainty and makes them feel fresher and happier. But then again, it makes you look easy-going.

Text her at first, and even if she wasn’t too enthusiastic in her response or didn’t write anything, you played the chivalrous card by thanking her for a great date. And you lose nothing here!

What about Texting Her the Next Day?

If you have a perfect date, sending a text on the same day may be the best way forward. But if you’re not entirely sure about her feelings for you, you can probably wait a day before texting her.

If you text her the next evening, then it tells her that you’ve been thinking about her and it’s always a good sign.

She may have been insecure overnight, but your text can conquer her fears and bring happy thoughts. By texting her the next day, you can play it safe and tell her that you like her.

Let’s say, instead of immediately telling her the same night that you like her, waiting to send the message to the next day can give her time to realize that she wants to hear from you. This lets her like you a little bit.

She may have had a good time, but she’s not sure about it, so give her time and maybe she will realize that she wants to give you another chance, without feeling pressured, she might even text you first!

I will suggest two options for you. Text her in the night or the next day. If you think you met your soulmate on a date, do you really need to wait 2-3 days or a week because someone told you so? Hit the iron when it’s hot, especially when both of you are in love with each other. 

But if you’re not sure about her feelings for you, text her the next day and have a conversation. Chances are, you’ll know what’s on her mind by then.

Should You Text Her Every Day After First Date?

No, you don’t have to text her every day. In fact, if you have something to say, you can text her and say what you want to say, but avoid texting her every day until your next date.

Well, you deserve someone who could not go a day without texting you, and it’s worth it to wait for that. If you haven’t talked to each other for a few days, that’s totally okay.

I advise you to text her 2-3 times a week. And after the relationship develops between you, you can text each other from 3 to 4 times a day.

Texting every day can feel great. It is also good for the development of the relationship, and at the same time it is also good if you don’t text every day. Slowing things down while dating has a lot of advantages as it brings a lot of pleasure to yourself when things happen one by one.

The most important thing that you must understand is that texting everyday may not guarantee the success of your relationship, because how often you like texting every day, but in the end the relationship fails.

In the end, I would like to tell you that the quantity does not matter, it is the quality that matters. You should consider the quality “what and how are you texting”, not the quantity “how much you texting her”.