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How To Escape The Friendzone With A Girl? A lot of guys seem to be stumped on how to escape the friendzone with a girl. So many guys that hit on girls at bars, clubs, parties and even work events have the same problems.

Either they just “wing it” with a girl they’ve never spoken to before, they get shot down by the girl, or worse, they end up in the friendzone.

Trying to escape the friendzone is hard because you have to first learn how to deal with rejection. You can’t expect every approach to go well.
There will be times where you’ll get rejected, especially if you’re in a place full of other women. But if you learn how to handle rejection then you’ll be able to move on and try with someone else.

If you’re interested in getting out of the friendzone then there are ways that can help you accomplish this goal.

What Is The Being Stuck in the Friendzone?

The friendzone is one of the most frustrating places a person can be in. Being stuck in the friendzone means you’ll forever be just a friend and never more.
It means that no matter how good of friends you get with someone of the opposite sex, it’s very unlikely that they will ever see you as anything more than a platonic buddy.

Why Do Guys Get In The Friendzone?

The friendzone is a place that no man ever wants to be in. And women are well aware of this. They will often “accidentally” find ways to end up in the friendzone.
Tending to their own needs, they will make sure they’re not vulnerable by keeping a safe distance from you. Women always have their guard up, and will only let down the barriers when they feel comfortable with you – and even then, only for a short time.

How Do You Escape The Friendzone?

Here are some super quick tips on how to escape the friendzone with a girl. Most guys who get stuck in the friendzone are being too passive, they are simply hoping for things to change, this very rarely works.

The best strategy is to constantly be proactive in showing your intentions to her. Even as friends, I recommend constantly hinting to her as often as possible, that you are interested in more than being friends.

This might be annoying to her, and could increase the chances of her ending her friendship with you. Which is the main reason why men often let the issue of being trapped in the friendship go, because they are afraid of losing contact with her entirely.

Men who avoid the friendzone and get the girl are the guys who fearlessly go after what they want, knowing that it’s better to have her reject him than be stuck in the friend zone.

Be Her Confidant

Be her friend and make her love you more than her other friends. When she learns to trust you, she will start trusting you more and this will compound over time.

She will let you know about some secret things which she is scared of telling anyone else. She will share her life with you and open up. This is how to build an emotional connection that will help you escape the friend zone with a girl.

Make her feel special

Make her feel special, this way she will fall in love with you. You have to give a lot of attention to a girl and make her realize that she is loved by someone who cares for her a lot.

This will help you to escape the friendzone with a girl, as girls like it when they are given attention from boys whom they like.

Be gentle with her

Touch her, kiss her and hug her gently, but be sure that there should be no seductive look in your eyes because if that happens then girls may think that you are trying to hit on them and if your intention is not like this then it will lead to confusion between both of you and this is not what we want at all so just avoid it till the end.

Speak softly to her

This one is a little strange, It okay if you don’t even try this one. Having a deep voice and talking in a calm way can be seductive to some women.

Being that stable voice/man in her life that she can rely on for some masculine energy, could, maybe help you win her heart. Again, this is a novel/experimental idea that has not been proven to work, by hey, give it a go if you’ve run out of ideas.

Speak softly, try to talk in a low voice so that she can feel the comfort of your voice because women want men who can make them feel safe and comforted. They want someone who tries to listen and understand.

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Wrapping Up. Ultimately, the best way to escape the friendzone with a girl is to simply talk to her more. Don’t wait for her to come to you, be proactive and go make the conversation happen.

It might not be that easy, keep the conversation going at first, but it will eventually become more natural over time. And if you make a sincere effort, eventually, it just might work out.

In short, don’t be afraid to ask a girl out. Acknowledge her feelings, be considerate of what she must be feeling–don’t blame her or get angry–and make sure she knows how much fun it would be to date someone like her.