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Building an emotional connection with women can be difficult in person, but building a connection over text can be almost impossible, but there is a secret.

The old strategies have been talking about how good your life is, displaying high value etc. Some people try to spike via text, or neg a girl, in order to try to evoke an emotional response, but these don’t necessarily work anymore.

One way to build an emotional connection that has been working for my coaching clients lately is, finding a way to get her to open up about her deepest, darkest, most disturbing, somewhat traumatic experiences in life that she’s told very few people about.

This requires large amounts of trust on her behalf, which is an integral part of this strategy.

I’m obviously not going to reveal the step-by-step process here, that’s saved for my paid coaching clients.

Although, if you have the ability to get that trust, then get her to open up to you in a way no one else has, then you are in her inner circle. This puts you ahead of everyone else in her life.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect game
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)

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How To Create An Emotional Connection By Texting Girls

Secrets to Create An Emotional Connection By Texting Girls. First impressions are everything. They set the tone for a relationship and determine whether or not you will get a second date.

But what if you’re shy? How do you make sure your first impression is memorable, without coming off as creepy?

It can be quite hard to know how to create an emotional connection with someone in person, but it’s easier when they’re sitting right in front of you.
Texting is different; there’s no face-to-face contact and people don’t really know who they’re talking to on the other end of their phone.
So how do we break through that barrier and create an emotional connection over text? Read on!

Pay Attention To Her Responses

When you start texting a girl, pay attention to how she responds. If she seems excited and engaged in the conversation, she’s probably interested in you. But if her responses are short or uninterested, move on!

There’s no point telling her you’re awesome or wasting your time trying to convince her that you’re a cool guy – it’s just not going to happen.

You don’t have to try and “get her hooked” on the first date, it actually makes you look desperate. Just move on and find someone who responds well to your texts!

Making Her Laugh – Humor is Attractive to Women

If the girl seems engaged, try to make her laugh within the first few texts. Making girls laugh works every time – it’s a sign that you’re fun and carefree, which is exactly what she wants!

If you can make any girl laugh or at least trigger a giggle, she will definitely be opening up more to you emotionally. It shows her that not only are you interested in her, but you also care about making sure she has a good time.

Be Flirtatious With Her

Flirting is the easiest way to turn a girl on over text. If you want to make her view you as more than just a friend, it’s essential that you flirt!
If you’re unable to let go emotionally and are not sure how to flirt with a girl through text, try starting your messages by flirting with her. For example, if she says something funny in one of her texts you could say “you’re so funny I love it.”

Once she knows you’re interested in her romantically, she will be more likely to respond to you with the same interest.

The Art Of Seduction

If she’s responding well, it’s time to make a move!
Using flirtatious banter is the best way to create an emotional connection with a girl over text. Before you try to ask her on a date, try flirting for a little while and see how she responds.

If it doesn’t feel like a flirty conversation is going to happen, just ask her out! Don’t overthink it; you don’t want the anxiety of trying too hard to get in her pants. Remember: girls need to know that you like them before they can like you back!

Remember, the first impression is everything; if she responds well to your texts and you make her laugh, she’s going to remember you as a fun guy with a great sense of humor.

If she thinks those are both qualities that she likes in a guy, it’s only a matter of time before she’s ready to go on a date with you.

Where To Go After You’ve Created An Emotional Connection

Once you’ve created an emotional connection with a girl over text, it’s time to take things to the next level.
Getting her number is easy! Just flirt with her for a little while then ask her if she’d be willing to give you her phone number.

If she doesn’t seem open to it, just forget about it and move on!

Once you have her number, try to meet up with her as soon as possible. Meeting in person will give you the chance to create a stronger physical connection than you ever could over text.

And who knows? You might even find out that the emotional connection you made was stronger than you thought!

Remember: if she’s responding well and flirting with you back, it’s only a matter of time before she agrees to meet up.

Don’t worry about whether or not your texts are “good enough” – texting is just the first, in a whole line of steps in getting to know each other! If your texts are making her laugh and she’s coming back for more, keep things going as long as possible.

Bonus Tip From a Dating Coach

Once you meet in person, just being yourself is going to be enough! After all, it doesn’t matter what you say on a date – girls don’t judge guys based on their text messages.

Plus, why would you want to sit there and think of the perfect way to say something when you could be having fun?
If she likes your sense of humor, it’s only a matter of time before she wants to see what else is in store.

Keep your flirting on point and keep her laughing, then just relax and let things happen!

If you get nervous when you’re in front of her, it’s going to be obvious. Just remember that the best way to win a girl over is by making her laugh and being yourself, not by using cheesy pickup lines or trying too hard.

As long as your flirting has been good up until this point, she’s going to be interested in meeting up with you.

Whether she is the type of girl who prefers texting or talking on the phone is going to depend on her personality and what culture she comes from.

Not whether or not she’s physically attracted to you. If your texts are making her giggle and flirty, start planning a date!