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Since I was a teenage boy in high school, I’ve out-gamed guys who are far better looking than myself and always got the girl.

Evidence that looks aren’t everything, also a lesson in how some guys seem to have everything going for them but fall short in something so valuable, ability to game.

There is a competitive nature that good-looking guys who cannot get laid happen to lack, I believe it is because these guys have never been pushed to the point where they need to cultivate that competitive edge.

Good Looking Guys Suffer From The Spot-light Effect

Having everyone’s attention can be a bad thing when it comes to meeting girls. It’s called the spot-light effect when a good looking guy enters a room and everyone notices him enter.

This is good in terms of the fact that everyone is attracted to him, but it’s bad when it comes to making a move on a girl in public, this means that if he gets rejected, everyone will notice, then the next girl he approaches will be less likely accept his advances because she won’t feel special.

In fact, the opposite, she’ll think that he’s just approaching anything in sight and just wants to get laid, which will make her feel dirty if she goes home with him, not to mention the judgement from her friends who would have witnessed the entire thing.

How to approach as a good looking guy: Use your looks to be accepted into larger mixed groups of people, make friends with guys too.

Because you are a good looking guy, people are more likely to allow you to join their group of friends. This way, your approaches will become warm approaches (less friction, less skill needed).

Plus, people will see you talking to guys and girls and won’t think that you are approaching at all, the entire thing will be covert.

Simply, in a friendly way suggest that you and the girls you speak to hang out together sometime in the future, you’ll find out fast if they are interested.

Get her contact information right then and there and if you feel there are a few girls that are interested in you, make sure that you are the last guy hanging around at the end of the night.

The girl whos interested in you will most probably hang around too, if so, she may go home with you at the end of the night, without any judgment from friends, hell, maybe none of them will even know.

Good Looking Guys Are Less Determined

When a good-looking guy is surrounded by people who like him, he’s less likely to want to ruin this social advantage he has by making moves on girls within his social group.

This in a way traps him into a social group that is great for building connections with friends but tragic when it comes to his love life.

And if he finds himself in a relationship with a girl within that group, everyone within the group would talk about it, they will play a part in his private life, that is quite intrusive.

Not to mention, if he breaks up with the girl, he might find himself kicked out of the group entirely, and the possibility of then starting a new relationship with another girl within the group is quite low.

The way to avoid all of these problems is to be more of a lone wolf, the type of man who will take advantage of his good looks to get into a group, make moves on the girls he is attracted to, then bounce to another group somewhere else, after taking full advantage of any opportunities.

The last thing good-looking guys should want, is to be trapped in a group with no future prospects for him.

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The world has vastly changed in such a profound way that we don’t have enough chances to meet potential partners. If we do, these opportunities are often in the form of chance encounters and not in the form of planned dates. 

This is because many people are too busy to date, and there is a lack of dating opportunities for people who want to date. With quantity over quality, many men find themselves in the position where they simply can’t find anyone to date or marry even if they are good looking. 

This guide will help you get a girlfriend if you are good-looking. 

Know the Modern Female’s Perspective on Relationships & Dating

The modern-day girl has a lot of choices available to them, which can make the dating game more challenging. When you know what girls are looking for in their boyfriends, you can make sure that you are meeting these expectations.

Girls are looking for guys who are able to make them feel special, so it is essential that they feel like they are the only ones you care about.

Girls also want good-looking guys who can show affection. However, there is far more to dating than just being handsome. Girls are more independent than they have ever been, which has led to them being less picky about finding someone they can have a relationship with.

Girls want guys who have something going on in their life and have bigger goals outside of the relationship.

Mistakes Guys Make When Approaching Girls for the First Time

Following are a few of the most obvious mistakes to avoid when approaching girls for the first time:

Approaching In Crowded Places without situational awareness. When approaching girls in a heavily populated area, you must be careful not to draw too much attention to yourself.

Being covert in your approach, so that no one in the are is fully aware that you are actually trying to pick up the girl, will help your results.

This is called indirect game, which I coach my clients how to do, having plausible deniability will reduce the amount of embarassment girls will feel when you approach them, not to mention helping you to avoid onlookers ruining your approaches.

Many guys make the mistake of approaching girls in crowded places like shopping malls. If the woman is not interested, she will leave before you even get a chance to talk to her.

Approaching At Inappropriate Times: Some coaches talk about approaching within 3 seconds of noticing a girl you are attracted to, this is designed to overcome approach anxiety, but can get you in so much trouble.

Take a few seconds to have a look around her before you approach, she might be with her boyfriend or even worse, her dad.

The simple method of waiting just a few more seconds to have a good look around, will help you to avoid so many issues you don’t want to get involved in.

Many guys make the mistake of approaching girls right after they get out from work or just when they are about to go to sleep, thinking that women will be happy and relaxed after a long day at work or being late for bedtime.

In reality, women might be tired and annoyed by these times because they want nothing more than to relax and unwind from their day’s activities.

Asking Her if She Has a Boyfriend: Let’s say you approached a girl who likes you, the approach went so well that she has decided that she wants to go out with you, then you ask if she has a boyfriend.

Under these circumstances you are effectively pressuring her into rejecting you if she in fact happens to have a boyfriend, when you could have allowed her to secretly try you out on the side while keeping her boyfriend and yourself a secret.

Most girls under these circumstances will tell you the truth, I don’t know why, it just seems to be how they behave under the pressure of being approached by a guy she likes. Many guys make the mistake of asking for it, and this does not leave a good impression on the girl.

5 Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend if You’re Good Looking

Following are the tips on how to get a girlfriend if you are good looking:

• If you’re good-looking, the average person will think you’re more attractive than if you’re not.
• You should have a well-put-together look to show off your good looks.
• Make sure that your hygene and clothes are clean and well-fitting.
• It’s always a better strategy to be overdressed than underdressed, so wear something nice even if the event is casual.
• Smile often. It’s contagious!

This article concludes that hard work is done for you if you are good-looking. But to get a girlfriend, you need to be more than just good-looking. You need to have the personality and the skills to make her fall in love with you.