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99% of the time, it’s over. I know this is not what you want to hear but with my lengthy experience of dating possibly a thousand different girls, from my experience, when the girl starts to ignore your messages, there’s a high probability it’s over.

However…

Let’s discuss a few strategies that have worked for myself and my coaching clients to overcome a girl who is ghosting him and eventually get a date with her.

Stay Positive With Your Communication With Her

This is vital. I know how easy it is to message her things like ”hey, why are you ignoring me?” or even something passive-aggressive like ”hey” then repeatedly sending the same ”hey” message every few days.

The problem with becoming even the slightest bit aggressive is, it’s over at that point, I don’t know one of my coaching clients who’s become aggressive or even slightly annoyed who has converted a girl who was ghosting him.

So, keep it light, even if you are becoming frustrated.

Using Ping Texts

As you can see from this ping text, it’s fairly humorous, it’s as if I’m asking her to marry me with a coffee bean. This basically means that I’d like to take her for a coffee sometime, on a coffee date.

The trick here is, she has to think about it, plus it’s funny, which will increase the chances of getting a reply from her. If she reengages, then you can get back to trying to line up a date.

This image is a great example of a ping text that I would use in the past, these days I have a catalogue of upgraded ping texts that I give my coaching clients but the method is the same.

Sending a funny ping text from my experience and my client’s experience is one of the best ways to get a girl who’s ghosting you to reengage and possibly give you another shot.

She Could Be Busy

If she’s often occupied when you’ve planned to hang out together, it’s generally easier to conclude she’s truly ignoring you. Nowadays, it’s also referred to as ghosting.

When somebody you’ve been with or communicating with suddenly vanishes, it’s known as ghosting. They vanish completely. As in, you’re either invisible, or you’ve disappeared entirely.

“God knows what happened,” or “are they okay?” these are some of the many questions which surface in your mind whenever someone you’re interested in is ignoring you.

However, this doesn’t happen right away. There must be something you did or said and, most likely, the faltering interest on their part. Texting girls and getting them to hook up with you immediately should never be on your list. It takes time to build up things and improve. 

It is possible to get ghosted at any stage throughout a partnership. You could still be attempting to persuade them to go on a preliminary date, or you might have previously hung out with her on a few occasions, and she’s become chilly.

Why Is She Ghosting Me?

Now, what is it, that made her ghost on me? Backed by research, the findings show there are generally two reasons why someone, or perhaps the girls you’ve been texting, plan on ghosting you. It wouldn’t come off as a caution at first, but by the time you’d realize, it’d be far too late. 

The number one reason for your “why girls don’t reply to me?” question could be the ultimate clue if she’s not interested anymore. On the other hand, the second one is you did something that made them angry or pissed off at you.

To further understand how everything works and if it was solely your fault, you’d have to move on further in this article. 

To explain why she lost interest could either completely be on her part, or maybe you have something to do with it.

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I’m Not Interested in Her Anymore

Well, the interest was lost, and your texting girls phase went “poof.” But why? Her getting bored could have something to do with how you responded to her texts.

If a girl constantly approaches you and tries to make plans, but in return, all you’re giving her is a bland “I have a soccer match” reply, boy, you’re definitely losing her. 

Texting too much, a lack of tolerance or an overabundance of eagerness create the illusion there’s literally you can do while she takes her time to respond isn’t recommended at all. That isn’t cute.

How so? Regardless of your hectic schedules, they need you to feel like you’re willing to spend quality moments with them. It’s is not based on the fact that you have nothing else on your hands, but because you need to show them that you’re busy and equally interested.

Furthermore, even though she did contemplate providing you with an opportunity to prove the boundaries, and you have nothing more left of your charms, she’s not inclined to go ahead and invest extra time alongside you.

It is always advised to draw your cards slowly. Do not jump to show how eager you are.

Unintentionally Making Her Angry

Perhaps you sent her an odd text, and the first meeting didn’t go as planned. It’s much harder to recuperate in these situations.

If you’ve accidentally made her angry and that’s the case, you may also want to take a break. Allow the girl some time to calm down and for things to settle down before starting back up with trying to date her.

It’s a smart option to review your run-ins with the female. Consider this: why does she ghost me? I’m certain if you browse over your chats, you’ll figure out the reason of her becoming so cold and far off.