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The purpose of this post is to help you get a Thai girlfriend WITHOUT PAYING FOR IT.

We all know why you are going to Thailand, stop lying to yourself and everyone around you. Don’t tell your work colleagues and family that you want to learn Thai, or you love Thai food, or that you want to see the Temples or some other crap like that.

The ONLY reason you are going to Thailand is to get laid, and no one is going to blame you for it, just be honest, it would be better for everyone involved if you just owned up to it.

Now, if this is the first time you are traveling to Thailand and this is the reason why you decided to search this topic on google, which led you to this post, I need to ask, have you paid for your flights and accommodation?

And are you able to cancel it right now? If so, cancel your trip immediately, because Thailand is the worst place to go to get laid for a million reasons. If not, if you are stuck with this terrible choice, then let’s get into how I recommend you navigate this awful country, to get the most out of it.

What Questions All Thai Girls Will Ask You

• How will you stay in Thailand?
• Are you here for a holiday or for work?
• What do you do? (Your job)
• How many Thai girls do you have now?
• How old are you?

They don’t want to be your holiday fling, most Thai girls want a long-term boyfriend who lives in Thailand for a long period of time. All these questions are designed to filter out the short-term travelers.

Millions of western men travel to Thailand all the time, sleep with a few girls and leave a few weeks later.

Even Thai girls who have never dated a foreigner will ask you these questions, it’s like the women in Thailand have some form of a hive mind, where they learn from each other’s experiences.

All of these questions are designed to figure out whether you can be their boyfriend for a long time or use them up and leave.

Thai Girls Don’t Care About Your Status or Money

Don’t try to prove how wealthy you are, or get a nice hotel, this will not impress a Thai girl. She will understand that your money and status are yours and that is not something that will help her in any way.

Many foreigners have been traveling to Thailand to get laid for decades, how foreigners act has been passed down to the next generation of girls over time.

Every basic trick you will try pull while you are in Thailand would have been tried by many other guys on the same girl before you, she knows the game better than you do, so it’s time to think outside of the box.

Thai Girls Don’t Like Confident Men

From my experience, Thai girls are suspicious of confident men who know how to carry themselves. Thai girls will immediately think that you have multiple girlfriends and cannot be trusted.

You’ll notice that some hot Thai girls will be walking around will thin, nerdy white guys who could never get laid in a western country if their lives depended on it.

It’s as if Thai girls can sniff out a nerdy incel and latch onto him, because she knows he will commit to her, and ultimately that’s what Thai girls want, they are looking for a long-term relationship.

How To Text Thai Girls

I still haven’t fully figured out this one, some girls will meet you immediately, these are the ones that will work out for you, it will be smooth, they will be compliant, everything will work out perfectly.

But the real purpose of this post would be to turn around those difficult girls, those girls who are on the fence about you, so lets cover what not to do.

Every aspect of interacting with Thai girls will frustrate the hell out of you. I don’t think they are stupid, but they definitely act that way sometimes.

The whole purpose of you texting them is to line up a date, but they seem to think you will be happy with texting forever without ever meeting, this will make you angry sometimes, which will only make your results worse.

You see, I made the mistake of getting frustrated via text with at least 20 different girls when I first arrived in Thailand.

How it works is, they will avoid meeting you, then you will say something like ”so, when are we meeting…” and the Thai girl will notice the slight frustration with you using ”….” and she will say that she won’t meet you if you are ”mad” or ”angry”.

Which will (if you let it) send you down a spiral of angry messages that will lead to no dates for you. It’s annoying how these girls will be oblivious to you wanting to arrange a date but spot the ever-most minute amount of frustration.

How To Get Laid In Thailand Without Paying For It?

The vast majority of men come to Thailand and pay for it, even men who are very attractive, young and could meet a girl easy, this was shocking for me to discover, but it’s true.

There are really only three ways to get laid in every country you may travel to:

• Online dating apps: This would be the first spot most guys go to, for some action, but there are many obstacles. Every dating app is full of gay guys and ladyboys pretending to be girls. These men use dating apps and lie about their gender, which means that you will accidentaly match with many of them. Remember a few rules, if the ”girl” is replying fast and wants to meet you, it’s most probably a horny man trying to trick you, because women here are difficult to get out on a date, they reply slowly and can be very frustrating to message. Be careful accidentally matching with ladyboys too, they will report your account for not meeting or sleeping with them, gay men in Thailand are extremely agressive, be careful. Also, when you match with a girl online, always be very nice to her, because Thai women are extremely vindictive, they will report you and you will lose your account as a result.
• Nightclubs and bars: Thai night life is very Chinese, you have to get a table, this makes it slightly more difficult to meet women. You need a few friends who can mind your table while you approach other tables of girls, hoping they allow you to join them, once you’ve been accepted to join their table it’s all down hill from there. The vast majority of ”nightclubs” suck in Thailand, they don’t have dancefloors often and are full of prostitutes, gays and ladyboys who will all make your life miserable in the clubs, avoid them at all costs.
• Daygame (street game, cold approach pick up): This method would normally be my favourite, but Thai girls are extremely awkward, they are difficult to talk to because of the language barrier, they are timid and shy. This all makes for a weird daygame experience, as they will mostly be scared of talking to you.

Here are some of my best posts:

• What’s it like having a Thai Girlfriend?
• Why Thailand is not easy anymore
• Can Indian guys get laid in Thailand?
• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect game
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)

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