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I’ve never had trouble with being locked into the friendzone, this is partly because I’ll always be showing my intentions towards her if she seems to not be aware of it.

This requires me to constantly be looking for any opportunity to show her that I am a possible love interest and definitely not ”friend” material. Unless she wants to lock me in as a friend with benefits.

A man who is never locked into the friendzone is always taking control of the situation. For instance, I’ll always be the one who chooses where we go and what we do, this will mostly put me in the driving seat as if I’m her boyfriend already.

Also, having this self-belief that she will eventually become my girlfriend no matter what obstacles seem to be in the way at the moment. This powerful mindset will get you though many situations in life, the least of which is getting out of the friendzone with a girl.

Finally, always having the ability to walk away at any moment, this is something that will eventually force her to decide how much she likes you.

Ultimately, she has only two choices, date you or lose you, and you are man enough to walk away at any moment.

You definitely don’t want to be one of those guys who hangs around for years hoping she eventually realizes how much of a good guy you are, then she decides to date you… Come on, this is never going to happen, there has to be a solid ultimatum that forces a decision to be made.

What is The Friendzone?

How to Escape the Friendzone with a Girl. The Friend Zone is a term that aims to explain the friendship, in which one of the parties wants to develop this relationship.

Because they seem to have feelings of love towards their friend, while they accept this friendship as it is, and do not want to develop it into any other relationship, and here the first party is stuck in the friendzone, and do not know how to get out of it.

So here are some step that will help you to get of the friendzone:

Accept Your Situation

Your rejection of reality will not help you in anything, as claiming to yourself that one day they will discover your feelings of love on their own and invite you to complete the love relationship. This is not going to happen. So, you just must work hard to get yourself out of this zone.

Stop looking at yourself as a victim

Many men always look at themselves from the perspective of a victim, and in fact the reason for this perspective is your actions.

The feeling that you have always been wronged, and that you are oppressed by the whole world in fact will not help you to get out of the friendzone that you are stuck in.

So, stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop anger at yourself, and stop judging yourself that you are a loser or a failure because all this will not benefit you in anything. Always try to see yourself better than that, and don’t let your emotions completely control you.

Stop Being Obsessive

Obsessing over her and thinking about her all the time isn’t good, and it won’t help you.

Going through her social media pages, flipping through her pictures, and checking her out will make you sickly obsessed with her, and that’s not good if you’re planning to build a love affair with her, so try to find a life that will keep you away from it so that you can be busy thinking about other things.

Stop Calling Her and Texting Her All the Time

If you want her to be attracted to you, you must stop chasing her all the time, because calling her more than ten times a day will not help her in anything. Try to make her miss you a little. Being in front of her all the time, will not make her think about you. So, try to reduce your calls and messages to her.

Make Her the One Who Takes Care of You

She is not looking for the easy-going man, she is always looking for the man who is somewhat challenging to get, and this is precisely the secret of the fact that men who are in a relationship are often more attractive than others.

So, a girl is more attracted to what she can’t have, and if you’re easy to get, and in front of her all the time, she will not be attracted to you as you want.

Shut Your Mouth a Little

Revealing all the secrets of your life to your friend (who you wants to be your girlfriend in the future) works to remove all the mystery and excitement surrounding you, because you did not leave anything for her to expect about you.

Which does not seem to her a feasible opportunity to hang out with you again, and do not reveal all the details and secrets at once, the less information she knows about you, the more curious she will be to get to know you.

Stop Being Her Friend

Getting close to her as a friend is one of the very wrong things that will keep you in the friendzone for a long time, so stop being her friend, and this includes the following: – stop listening to her problems with other men, stop going on shopping with her, carrying her bag, being her private driver, these are all actions that keep you all the time in the friendzone.

Don’t Let Her Take Over

You are a man, so don’t let a woman lead you to what you should do. She wants a man who will take over things on her behalf, to be a support for her, so don’t be afraid to make decisions and choose where to go, or what drink to have, and don’t be afraid if she won’t agree with you, things like this will help you get to know each other.

This was some of the most important steps to get out of the friendzone and become her boyfriend. If you really stick to these steps, then you will be able to transform your relationship from a mere friendship to a true love affair.

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