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Neediness is something that really kills a relationship, I get it, you got yourself a hot girlfriend, she’s the best one you’ve ever had. So, what do most guys do in this situation? Yeah, they start to become way too needy, they hover, they forget that they have a life outside of the relationship.

And this behavior pushes her away…

• Don’t want to be replying to her texts immediately
• Don’t answer the phone to her straight away
• Send her some photos of fun things you are doing, let her know you have cool things to do
• You need to prove to her that you have a life
• Have a secret rotation, there should be other girls in your life too

You’ll want to let her get to know you while you’re first starting to know that special someone. Make sure she knows just enough about you to pique her curiosity, but don’t tell her everything at once.

You can make her want to remain around and learn more about you by reserving some of your good stories for later.

When you pique her interest just so, she’ll want to stay longer to hear the rest of your tales. She’ll be curious as to who you are. At the same time, you must provide some personal information, otherwise, you will come out as remote.

Allow her into your life, but do not treat her as if she were your therapist. She does not require immediate access to every detail.

How do you know if shes thinking about you?

Before we get into figuring out how to make her miss you, we need to have a good look at whether she already misses, and respects you anyway.

Maybe you are not reading the signs correctly, most men get it wrong. If she never calls you, that does not mean anything, women don’t call men, it’s just something they don’t do, so please don’t use this as a metric.

The easiest way to find out if she misses you when you are not around, is by calling or messaging her. If she answers quite fast or returns your call quite fast after missing your call, this means that she misses you, this in my opinion, is the best way to know if she misses you.

Over several times of you calling her, try to take note of how often or rapidly she replies to you, this should give you a good understanding.

How do I know if my crush misses me?

Furthermore, if you expose too much about yourself all at once, you will find yourself talking a lot about yourself. It’s easy to come across as self-absorbed if you talk too much about yourself.

Allow her some time to miss you by giving her some space now and then. How can she possibly miss you if you are present at all times? Being physically present isn’t the only need.

You should also refrain from calling her or sending her text messages. While checking in with her and responding to her calls and texts is considerate, you should not be obsessed with her.

She may feel overwhelmed and smothered if you are around too much. If you are with her too much, she may grow tired of having you around sooner or later.

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Ambition is Irresistible To Women

Confidence comes from your ability to accomplish things, and in order to accomplish things, you’ll need to be quite ambitious. Women love confident men who accomplish things in life, they want to be around men like this.

That doesn’t mean that you have to transform into this type of guy if you are not already. Now is your chance to put together a list of things that you want to achieve in your life, and start achieving them, this will become irresistible to her.

Also, what did she like about you, when you first met her? Don’t forget what got you here in the first place.

Take your mind back to when you first started to date her, what was it that attracted her to you, use that as your source of power, whether it’s your attitude, your hobbies, whatever it was, go back to it, use it to get her attention again.

Give Her Space

Even if you love spending time with each other and care about each other, it is still a good idea to give each other some alone time now and again.
Whether you spend one hour a day apart or one day a week apart, you should make intimacy a priority, by making more time to spend together.

You should make every effort to make the most of your alone time with her. As a result, when she meets you again after a short gap from each other, she will be overjoyed. You will both feel rejuvenated and revitalized after doing so, and you will be eager to see each other again.

Technology is how we communicate with our significant others these days. We have plenty of options to keep in touch with our romantic interests, from texting or conversing on the phone to using Facetime and Skype.

It demonstrates that you care when you use technology to communicate with your love interest. At the same time, you’ll want to avoid giving the impression that you’re following her about. Allow her some breathing room and distance. She’ll have more time to miss you this way.

Try to discover something you can do by yourself so you can stay in touch with yourself. It’s nice to be able to be alone with yourself once and then.
If you try to force her to do whatever you want, even if she isn’t interested, the relationship may become monotonous and suffocating. Allow yourself to do your own thing now and then.