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There is a multitude of female psychological factors to consider when it comes to starting a successful conversation with a woman. And besides, over the first few moments of meeting you, women form an impression of you.

Would you like to figure out how to make the best possible first contact and almost seamlessly wow every woman you speak with? To smoothly converse with a woman, you don’t need a silver tongue; all you need is a good understanding of ladies, their preferences, likes, and what it requires to attract them.

Not every guy, in fact very few guys are born with the ability to speak freely. Knowing how to interact with women and connect them in intriguing conversations requires experience. In this article, you’ll learn how to strike up a conversation with a woman you like.

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Have a strong understanding for who she is, before going in for the approach

Go over to her and say the first thing that springs to mind, this will usually take the form of a compliment, I don’t recommend you do this at all, but when you are new to meeting women, it’s a great start.

When you make a remark on a lady you like for her inherent goodness, you’re expressing your love and respect for who she is as an individual.
Describing what she is wearing in detail, then giving your opinion on it, can come across a little too arrogant, but why not give it a try. Keep in mind that you are just out here to try new things, please don’t take a girl ignoring you, or telling you to go away personally.

Go even further by recognizing human characteristics rather than learned skills. In other words, appreciating a woman’s professional skills demonstrates your respect for her innovative thinking.

Inquire About Her Feelings – Daygame

Begin by telling her about something you enjoy doing, and then invite her to join in. “What types of different hobbies do you enjoy doing in your leisure moments?” Sure, this is a weird sentence structure, but she will definitely catch her attention.

If you can find out as much as possible about what she does in her free time, this will give you a few first date ideas for when you get her number.

Learning about a lady’s skills and hobbies also allows you to appreciate her without emphasizing her beauty. It’s a sophisticated move that instantly distinguishes you from other guys.

Yeah, when you go too direct with girls all the time, all it will do is make them feel as if you are only interested in her body, this is something to be avoided.

Tell Her Who You Are – Daygame

Once you cross paths with someone new, it’s a good idea to introduce yourself and pique her attention. Only tell her the good things about you, I’m not saying that you should simply DHV display high value all the time, just share a few small things about yourself that are of high status.

Then simply keep it vague, try not to give her the full picture of your life, this will add some mystery to the mix.

Initiate the discussion by informing her of your identity, and if she seems interested, you can go on to tell her about your career or hobbies. It’s possible that telling her why you approached her might pique her interest as well.

Inquire About Her Schedule – Daygame

If you can find out whether she lives nearby, whether she works nearby, then ask what she is doing right now. At this point you have all the information you need to line up a date with her in the future.

You’ll know where to have the date, you should have an understanding of whether she will be working that specific date, and you’ll have the ability to take her somewhere cool on a date straight away if she’s free right now.

Inquiring regarding her workday can be a nice way to begin a conversation. Whenever you ask the inquiry, be polite and compassionate. “How was your day?” you might inquire.

If she responds with a single word, follow up by asking, “How did you spend today?” Make it clear to her that you want to learn more about her.

Your courtesy may encourage her to open up. If she appears to be having a bad day, cheer her up by telling her something amusing or humiliating that happened to you that day.

Pose Intriguing Questions – Daygame

Asking questions she has never heard before shows several things about you. One: it shows that you are fully engaged in the conversation and that you are listening contently. The last question she wants to hear is ”how are you?” or another boring question like that.

Bringing up intriguing open-ended inquiries to one another assists you get to understanding each other better and maintaining the discussion going. “So what was the craziest thing you have done?” opinions would get a slew of responses.

Speculative inquiries like “If you had one ability for a day, what would you wish for and what would you do?” might liven things up.

Create a Sense of Mystery – Daygame

Using her favorite subject and fostering suspense might pique her enthusiasm but it won’t create mystery. Mystery is created when she knows just enough about you, that she’s intrigued, but you don’t tell her enough that she thinks she knows everything.

Here’s the worst way you can talk about yourself around her. When she asks about your weekend, you tell her that you waited for your friend to come pick you up, you guys were late for the comedy club.

Another one of your friends didn’t show up, then go into detail about how the entire night went. This is oversharing and it’s an unattractive thing to do around women.

Instead, try this.

Let’s say she asked about your weekend, the best way to answer is by telling her that you went out with a group of friends to somewhere nice, tell her it was an eventful night, but don’t tell her the specifics. Then leave it there, don’t tell her anymore.