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Sexually escalating doesn’t mean that you have to talk about sex, sure some men do believe that is the case, but I don’t think you need to. Men can sexually escalate on a woman by simply physically escalating on her, remember the act is far more effective than talking about it.

I’d argue that sexually escalating verbally is a form of fearful, way to ask for her approval. And yes you do need her to agree to this, but it’s not advisable to do this in a low-value way.

Never Hide Your Sexuality

Whenever there is an opportunity to say something sexual, you must not laugh it off, take advantage of any chance to stay in the conversation with her about whatever topic related to sex there is.

For instance, if she says something about her body, no matter what it is, this is an opportunity to explore that topic fully, stick with that topic, never shy away from sexual topics with women who you are attracted with.

Don’t allow your nervousness get in between you and her, make sure that you are comfortable, the more comfortable you are, the more comfortable she will be.

Sure, I get it, some men come from cultural backgrounds that will make you feel like escalating on a woman is wrong, remember it is perfectly okay to escalate in a mature and respectful way.

Be strong, you can do this.

Monotone Vocal Tonality is Boring

A boring monotone voice will only repel her, please have some polarising, dynamic vocal tonality. When you sound like a boring university lecturer, you will only escalate her need to fall asleep.

Spike it up a little, talk louder and softer, depending on the topic you are talking about. If you sound excited, she will possibly become excited too. Don’t be the uni lecturer.

Make her feel safe around you, she needs to know that you are the type of guy who will listen when she has an issue or is a little scared. Once she feels safe around you, she will allow her to let go fully.

The environment doesn’t matter as much as you may think, if you have the opportunity to hint of something sexual with her, take that opportunity, just be more discrete if there are onlookers around.

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Verbally Escalating on a Woman

Don’t undervalue the importance of body language and a strong manner of expression. You might want to gaze into her eyes and say things like, “I’m going to make sensual love to you.” why not give it a shot. As long as you are comfortable doing it.

Consider how you’d look at your girlfriend if you told her to go down on you when you both get hot and heavy. That’s the tone you want to set for the rest of the relationship. She will expect you to act like a man, so don’t disappoint her, go for it.

Gently and flirtatiously converse, as though you’re attempting to find out what she’s up to. There will inevitably come to be a point wherein the chat when it becomes lighthearted and cheerful, but you can always return to this strong sexual tone.

It’s okay to fluctuate between the flirtatious vibe and the solid sexual frame, keep things interesting. By being dynamic, you be spiking her emotions continuously, this rollercoaster of emotions will blow her mind and have her begging you for more.

No matter what you’re saying, if you get this down, you’ll laugh and go on.

Here are some discussion starters to assist you in politely escalating your situation

1. “Have you had another lady, kiss you in a passionate way?” hinting that she may have had some type of lesbian encounter, this is a great way to introduce the idea of being adventurous with her.
2. “Who did you have in mind if you had the chance to make love with any male artist in the world?”
3. Roleplaying some future adventure you’ll do together. While imagining a wild trip you’ll go on in the future together, roleplay as if you are both doing it right now. I know the usual one, where you can call her your wife or something, sure, that’s one, but you can be more creative, can’t you.
4.  Get her to open up about adventurous things she’s done with other guys. “Can you tell me about the most impulsive thing you’ve ever done with a guy?” If she opens up, this increases the probability she will try the same thing with you.

We’ll go over ways to sexually escalate on any woman you may have a date with. The following are a series of escalation moves and strategies that begin mildly and gradually, then get more intense over time.

• Initiate a direct, man to woman frame – “I wanted to say hello since I thought you were gorgeous.” (Whatever you do, open explicit as a tuneup, but don’t forget to follow up with the direct opening with ‘by the way.’)

• Make contact with her accessories while expressing pleasure in them — any kind of caressing is OK. To begin with, here’s a simple idea.

• When she says anything clever or hilarious, she gives you a lighthearted tap on the shoulder or thigh. So you can accomplish this more effortlessly, sit close to her on a date.

• Use any opportunity to put your hand in hers. Reading her palms, arm wrestling, and inspecting her rings and tattoos are all things she enjoys doing.

• Humor on starting a family or a super-romantic date that are a little too far out there

• Taking her hands in hers and salsa-dancing

• Straightening or shedding something from her tresses

• Inquiring if she’s athletic and rubbing her arms and abs in a pleasant manner

• Caresses

• Nipping at her earlobes or neck

• Placing her hands against your chest or buttocks

• Grinding on the dancefloor

• Smooching and so on