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I’m now 41 years old at the time of writing this post and my girlfriend just turned 24 years old, that’s almost 17 years younger than myself. Simultaneously, I like to have other ”regular’s” and one night stands with new girls whenever they come along.

Let me tell you about two of my most recent girlfriends, my previous one and then I’ll tell you about my current one.

I’ll give you tips in this post on how I met them and dated them, some of my personal experience should be very helpful for any older guy who is trying to get a younger girlfriend but doesn’t know how to do it.

There’s a whole lot of judgement being put on men who prefer to date girls more than 5 or even 10 years younger than themselves. This is great for you. This should be seen as a positive. Think about it this way, if every man in society is being shamed for desiring younger women, the vast majority of these men would avoid dating younger women because of the social stigma. Which simply means there’s less competition for you! Less older men to compete with, means more options for yourself.

Dave – One Man’s Life Mission

Do You Need To Be RICH and HANDSOME?

• No, I don’t live in a 3rd world country, I’m living in Sydney Australia and have never lived abroad
• No, I am not a doctor, in fact I don’t even have a university degree
• Nope, I am not wealthy, in fact I’ve always been living just above the poverty line, due to a multitude of factors. One being my disabilities
• Nope, I am not a tall chad, in fact I am 5’8 short (around 173 cm short)
• Nope, I’m not a male model, in fact a decade ago I became disabled, both my hips have been replaced since and my right knee will eventually need to be fully replaced in the future too.

Before I met my current girlfriend, I had a longer term girlfriend, she was a scientist who just completed her PhD when I met her. She was about 26 years old and I was about 38 years old from memory (12 years difference approximately).

I couldn’t walk more than 50 meters without chronic pain when I met her. Sure she did criticise me for not being highly educated or having any money, but I managed to overcome all of her objections over time and eventually she fell in love with me.

Women mostly prefer to date up, that means a girl who’s earning $25,000 per year will only date a guy who is earning $50,000 or more, this is just natural for women. A girl with a university degree will only date a guy who has a masters degree or higher. When you look at the high quality girls I have dated, you need to take ”hypergamy” into account too. It’s not just my age that’s holding me back, it’s my education level and socio economic status as well that is a huge disadvantage for me.

Dave – One Man’s Life Mission

I’ll explain how I manage to achieve such impossible relationship goals later in this post.

She received a job offer at Oxford university a year into our relationship. The last thing I wanted to do, is get in between her and her dreams, imagine how good Oxford university would look like on your resume, it would look amazing.

She did offer to stay with me in Sydney and decline the offer, but I told her to follow her career and dreams. Not to mention the fact that I was on the waiting list for my 2nd hip replacement in Sydney, which meant that I couldn’t move to the UK with her anyway.

So, the relationship ended.. Guess how I met her?

Where To Meet a Younger Girlfriend?

• Night club? of course not, you will rarely find a high quality girl getting wasted in a bar, club, nightclub etc
• Online dating? Tinder etc? Hell no, we all know that dating apps are rigged to steal money from men of lower value and give 80% of all the women to good looking/ high status men with handsome photos.

So how did I meet her? Well, this is what I teach men, it’s called cold approach pickup or Daygame. I call it ‘the sweet art of cold approach”.

I met this girl around lunch time on the street. She was walking to the shops and I cold approached her on her way there. We had a little chat, (which I had practiced over 10,000 times), then at the end I got her contact information.

On the first date, I took her straight home and we slept together. Sure, it sounds easy, but it’s not that easy and to get this good, it takes practice.

Perhaps 10,000 approaches is a conservative estimate too, depending on what your definition of a cold approach is too. On average, I’d approach 3 girls per day, every day, that works out to be over 1000 approaches per year, not to mention days that I specifically go out to do many approaches. Hell, I could be over 20,000 at this point.

My Current Girlfriend is 17 Years Younger Approximately

Let’s continue the story, my ex girlfriend went on to Oxford university, she did offer to stay with me, but I didn’t want to get in between her and her career.

Not to mention how valuable she has become to the world, now that she is over there doing science that is changing the world for the better. Also, I’d like to see her marry a high value man and have a family, that would be good for her.

So, since we broke up, I had my 2nd hip replacement and had to get back out there. Most men in this situation would be depressed and the main reason (in my opinion) why they’d be depressed, is because they don’t know when the next girl is going to come from.

The uncertainty of their future dating life, can be quite stressful. But this was never an issue for myself, because I have the skills to meet new girls anywhere and anytime. So, I re-emerged from my last hip-replacement confident that I’d find a new girl and that I’d be able to do it fast.

We met at the train station (sub way).

She was waiting for the train on the platform, and since there was a few minutes until the next train was to arrive, I went over and introduced myself to her.

Ran my game, then we split ways to get on the train (indirect game). She happened to get off at the same train stop as myself, so I re-approached her (kinda a warm approach this time) talked to her again, exchanged contact information, said good bye.

Our first date was a quick lunch at a sushi train, then a few dates later we slept together and I locked her in. Sure, that’s a simplistic summary of what I did, but I don’t give away all my secrets for free 😉 I charge for live coaching after all.

A Girlfriend 10 years Younger Has Difficulties

As I said before, society does frown upon a man who has a girlfriend so much younger, this means that you need to alter the way your relationship is conducted.

For instance, I would avoid meeting her friends and family at all costs. When you are over say 5 years older plus, her friends and family will judge her for dating you, so it’s best practice to avoid them, until she actually falls for you.

Once she has fallen for you, only then will she ignore all criticisms about the age difference.

Lie About Your Age

Some people say that you should never lie, and to some extent I agree. There’s a book called ”lying” by Sam Harris where he points out that there are very few situations in life where it’s okay to lie.

But…

Your age is almost always going to be a deal breaker when you meet a girl for the first time. She might be extremely attracted to you, but if she discovers you are over a certain age (usually 5 years), she’ll ignore her feelings of attraction for you and reject you on the spot based purely on your age.

Trust me, I’ve split tested this hundreds of times and the results are definitive.

Because of this, I stopped aging at 28 years old. That’s right, I’ve been 28 years old for 13 years now, well at least that’s what I tell girls my age is, if they ask. This is one golden tip, that I’m happy to share publicly, I’ve got thousands more, if you would like to hear them.

If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.

Thank you for reading, please keep in touch.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect daygame
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, Enquire here, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.