How to be an Attractive Man (simple steps)

Dave

November 11, 2021

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Many things make a man attractive and contribute towards a person becoming an awesome catch.

Some of these include having strong personal hygiene, dressing nicely, and owning good manners. These are all important qualities to be attractive.

Are you here to learn about how to be more attractive? Well, here are 20 sure-fire ways for men to do it. This article discusses the importance of dressing well, grooming habits, and how these things can make or break a man’s attractiveness.

Ways for Men to Be More Attractive

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Here’s a list of twenty simple steps that can help you to become more of an attractive man.

Be Kind

Don’t allow women to walk all over you. You must have a strong frame, be able to walk away at any moment, she needs to know where the line is and have enough respect for you, to not cross it. Though, kindness doesn’t mean weakness.

Women find nice guys attractive. So, if you want to be more attractive to women, then being a kind and genuine person is the way to go. Being nice doesn’t mean you have to let people walk all over you. You should be kind but firm.

Look High Status

Be the type of man that she would want to be around, and we all know that men with high status are those men. The age old trick of at least showing high status should do the trick for you.

Looking important is another way to be more attractive. For example, if you are wearing a suit and tie or an expensive watch, then it will make women think that you have money or status in society which can help to increase your attractiveness.

Have an Entourage

Women love to slot into a large tribe/crew of guys, it makes them feel great. When you bring a group of friends to the party, women are more likely to say yes, if you know what I mean.

An entourage can be attractive to women. It shows that you are the type of person who is surrounded by people who support and care for him. Having an entourage also means that you have social status, which is another trait of attractiveness.

Be Funny – Humor is Attractive

Women like to laugh, they love to feel good and therefore they love men who can make them laugh. So, being funny is another way to be an attractive man. You don’t have to tell jokes or anything like that but if you are naturally funny, then use it as a weapon in your dating arsenal.

Smile Often

Another way to be more attractive is by smiling slowly. This shows that you are confident and also takes the focus off of your mouth, which can help if you have big teeth or a crooked smile.

Being friendly, having common interests, being trustworthy and loyal will all increase rapport with women. All these things will make you more attractive to women.

Sunglasses

Sunglasses are not only important in protecting your eyes from the sun’s UV rays. They can also make you look more attractive to women. Why? Well, sunglasses can add mystery to you, and women find mysterious men attractive.

Sunglasses also make it look like you are above attention-seekers, and this will make you seem more attractive to women.

Stubble – Grow a Beard

Women love a bit of stubble, it helps to define your jaw bone, not to mention most women love something to touch.

Beards look great on most men. Not only do beards help hide a man’s double chin, but they can also make you more attractive to women.

Besides making your face appear wider and stronger, it is a known fact that women find bearded men more attractive than those who are clean-shaven or have mustaches.

Get in Shape

Most women find men more attractive if they are in shape, Very few like the dad bod, there are some out there though, but it will be risky waiting for one to come along.

You don’t have to look like a jacked bodybuilder or anything but just start working out and eating healthy foods so that your clothes fit better and you feel confident about yourself.

Learn a Musical Instrument – Like a Guitar

If you play a musical instrument, then it will make women more attracted to you. Music is relaxing and enjoyable for most people so if you have talent in this area, show it off!

Own a Pet

Owning a pet is a sign that you can not only care for yourself but someone else. A pet is a sign of maturity and stability. Keep this in mind, if you get a pet, as this will give off boyfriend vibes.

If you are not looking for a long term relationship right now, she might still see you as more of a long term thing.

Having a pet is another way to be more attractive. Women find men who are caring and devoted to anything or anyone they care about, including animals, very attractive.

The reason for this is that people who put effort into things tend to get better results than those who don’t.

Be Careful with Pick-up Lines

Pick-up lines are often used by men to try and gain a woman’s attention. We have all heard them before: “Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk past again?”
Well, don’t use pick-up lines! Pick-up lines come across as cheesy most of the time, so it is better if you just be yourself.

Look Proud – Don’t Be Proud

One another way to be more attractive is by looking proud. This means you need to hold your head up high, have good posture and walk with confidence!
By being confident in yourself, it makes women feel that they can trust you. And if a woman trusts you, then she will see how kind and loyal you are, which will increase her attraction towards you.

Walk with Confidence

Many people believe that confidence is one of the sexiest things a man can have, and women agree. Not only does it make you more attractive, but it also makes you feel better about yourself, which will lead to feeling happier in general.

Dress Nicely

Dressing well is another way for men to become more attractive. For example, if a man wears clothes that fit him properly and are clean, then women will see this as being more attractive than someone who dresses badly or carelessly.

Body Language

Having good body language makes men much more attractive. Having poor body language, such as having a slouched posture or keeping your arms and legs crossed, can cause women to lose interest.

So if you want to be more attractive, then you must have good body language and maintain eye contact when talking with them, so they know that what they are saying matters!

Don’t Flirt With Other Women Around Her

Some guys think this is a way to show ”preselection” but this strategy will backfire the majority of times. Women don’t want to play side chick, to some player, no matter how high value he is.

If you want women to find you more attractive, then you mustn’t flirt with women. Women will see your lack of interest as being an attractive quality because it shows that you are strong and confident.

Oral Hygiene

Women’s sense of smell is more powerful than most men. Bad breath, stains on your teeth, food stuck in your teeth. These are all going to destroy your chances with an attractive girl.

Oral hygiene is an extremely important part of being more attractive. If you don’t have good oral hygiene, then women will lose interest in talking with you because it shows that you’re not taking care of yourself, and they’ll look elsewhere!

Accept your Flaws

No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws, but there is a difference between being confident about your weaknesses and trying to hide them. If you want women to find you more attractive, then you should accept your flaws because they are what makes you unique.

Being comfortable with who you are is attractive and never making excuses for any of your flaws. As long as all of these flaws are out of your control, that is. 

Volunteer to do Charity

This can take hard work and time to do, and it may not work out that well, if you want to use it as a way to attract women. So, make sure that you truly want to be of service to society, because if your heart isn’t in it, she will smell it on you from a mile away.
Volunteer yourself into a charity or cause, because this shows women that you are caring and kind. So, if you’re looking for a strategy to make your partners attracted to you, then volunteering is one of those ways.

Split Test Colognes

This is not even a basic science, it’s more of a superstition. But it’s a good way to figure out which cologne you should buy, especially when the range of choices is so vast.

Test out different colognes when you go on dates, to see what your results are at the end of the night. One thing I’d do is, use those cologne testers at the shopping center, before my date.

Then try a different one at another date and at the end of many dates, I’d take note of which dates went well and which ones did not. I’d end up buying the colognes I wore during the dates that went well. Again, this is not a science, it can mostly be seen as superstition

Wearing cologne is another way for men to be more attractive. If you want women to find you, then they must smell your scent when around.

The smell of cologne is enough to make a woman’s heart race, and it can be difficult for her brain not to become romantically attached – so why not wear one!

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