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Most guys screw this part up big time, by being way too available, too needy, too agreeable. If you are always smothering her all the time, how can she come to you?

Well, she cannot, so lets give her the opportunity to do this in every interaction with women from now on. You don’t have to win her heart, she doesn’t have to be falling head over heels in love with you.

Let’s put a stop to all of that right now and show you How To Make Girls Chase YOU!

First Impressions Count

Make your first impression count. Make sure you are clean, well-groomed, and well dressed. Women will chase a man who takes care of himself as it shows them that he cares about his appearance, and women certainly care about their appearances.

Smile and make eye contact but then look away as though you have purpose and intentions to see who else is around.

Make sure to keep your hands out of your pockets and do not cross your arms, or you will appear to be uninviting, and she will think
you are arrogant.

Be A Challenge

Be a challenge; make her want your attention purely on her. When you do look her way, make sure to look like you are interested but that you are not needy for her attention.

Women love the challenge of chasing a man who seems interested but not too over the top. Don’t let her know you are keen to spend more time with her. Play a little hard to get, and she will chase you.

Active Listening

When you speak to her, make sure to ask her questions about her that way, you sound interested. Try to keep her curious by
not giving away too much information about yourself to build a bit of a mystery about yourself.

There is a fine line here, you should be aware of because if you answer all of her questions without answering them fully, she will think you aren’t interested.

Please get to know her better, what her likes and dislikes are. Make it known that you are really listening to what she has to say.

Humor

When speaking with her, make her laugh. Women love a man with good humor, and they find this to be an attractive quality that will keep them wanting more.

Be sure not to make fun of her as a joke or anything crude or racial as these will be a big turn off and she will not chase you.

Pay Attention To Her Needs

Keep tension in the conversation by letting her lead the conversation. Pay attention to small details about her such as; a clip in her hair, tell her this moment reminds you of a movie you saw one time (romance or drama).

Compliment her but don’t overdo it, just a compliment here and there will keep her happy and wanting to spend more time talking to you.

Notice changes such as cutting or coloring her hair, new jewelry, or anything at all that has changed. She will be glad that you pay so much attention to her when you are together and it will keep her wanting more.

Put Her In The Friendzone

Stop chasing her, put her in the friend zone and she will want to get your attention more and want to be more than just friends. She will flirt to see your reaction, flirt back but make her work for it.

As previously stated, women love a challenge. Tell her she reminds you of your little sister/cousin etc.

She will make it a challenge to show you that you should view her as an attractive and potential mate rather than a family member.

Walk Away

Leave if you have to leave and if she wants to make a date tell her that you will need to check your schedule. That way you seem busy or wanted by other women.

This will make her more curious but be sure not to do it every time or she will lose interest. Tell her you are busy but offer an alternative day.

This will show her that you can make time for her, and she will want to spend more time with you. She will want to fit into your busy schedule.

Don’t Profess Your Love For Her

Don’t admit that you like her too soon. Wait for her to tell you that she likes you and then you can tell her you like her too. If you tell her you like her too soon the chase is over and she may think you are needy.

But don’t reject her either, she will think you are not interested and she will go elsewhere. It’s quite a fine line but if you can find the right balance between showing her you like her but not appearing needy, then you will have her chasing you down.

Be Polarizing – Disagree With Her

Disagree with her, don’t be a YES man. Make sure you don’t overdo it by disagreeing on everything, or she will lose interest in you very quickly. But don’t be scared to disagree with her over some things.

Women like men who use their own minds and does not follow what he thinks the answers should be. This is a big turn-on and will have any woman chasing you in no time.

Tell her she’s a distraction. Women love to hear that they have all of your attention when you are with them. She will want to spend more time around you because she has all of your attention.

But make sure to contrast your attention, give her your full attention when you are with her, but when you are not give her slightly less attention and this will have her chasing you.

Her Social Circle is Important

Warm-up to her social circle. Her social circle is an extension of her and if you can win them over she will chase you. You will become a good prospect to her and the fact that you get along with her friends is a huge plus.

Try to work out who her best friend is and be sure to have them on your side because the best friend will be the one giving her advice on whether to chase you or not.

Introduce her to your friends but make sure your friends are either unaware of who she is or pretend to be clueless. She will love that you are letting her into your inner circle but she will try harder to get you to talk about her to your friends.

You may even find that she asks a lot of questions about you so that some of that mystery is uncovered.

Escalate Slowly

Last but not least, be careful of how you touch her. Always use a soft touch and never one with sexual tones. Something like a slight hand on her back as you walk together.

These little touches will have her skin tingling and she will want more of your touch as it makes her feel both safe and wanted. If you were to place your hand around her bottom she would see that as you only wanting one thing, and she would lose interest.

I posted an epic long story about how I travelled to Japan and spent 8 full days approaching girls. Another post I recommend is how to make game a lifestyle. Or how to date younger girls. These three I recommend you have a read of.

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