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Turning a girl on through text only works, if she’s already turned on by you in person. Start by letting her know you both have an emotional connection, then begin to turn everything she texts into something sexual.

Give her a nick name no-one else calls her, use sexual innuendos often, tell her what body part of hers you were thinking about. Flip it on her by accusing her of trying to seduce you, then telling her in detail what you would like to do to her next time.

Finally, remember there’s a fine line between turning a girl on and going too far.

Before you get to the point of texting a girl, you’ll need to get her number in the first place and that’s something that I specialise in. Here‘s a free 3 part video series on cold approach.

Here is my facebook group which has over 4o hours and growing of cold approach pick up infields from all over the world. And Finally, my 30 day challenge which will teach you how to approach girls in more detail.

Warm Her Up Before You Turn Her On

I’ve made the mistake countless times, where I try to move things way too fast with girls, from wanting to have sex on the first date, to totally forgetting foreplay before sex. It’s something that I need to keep reminding myself of and I recommend you do the same.

Reminding yourself to take it slower, I mean.

You can’t just start making sexual innuendos and being overly flirtatious over text before building an emotional connection. If you were to start with trying to seduce her through text immediately, she may feel like you only want her for her body.

Women hate to feel like sexual objects to men and this is not me being a male feminist simp, this is simply how women think. Sure, us men want to get down and dirty immediately, but women want to feel as if they are wanted for something more than their bodies and us men need to keep reminding ourselves of this.

Now, there are many ways you can let her know that you are not just using her for her body and you have an emotional connection too. So, start with this, show her that you guys have a bond, an emotional connection, then move on to turning her on through text.

Use Her Nick Name And Tell Her You Miss Her

You should already have a nick name for her, something that no one else calls her other than yourself. Now is a good time to use it and over exaggerate it more via text. You should have a more creative nick name than ”babe” but lets use it for now for demonstration purposes.

One of my most common uses of this strategy is the ”We haven’t seen each other in years babe” this is clearly an over exaggeration and it combines three 3 things in one simple sentence.

• Shows that you guys have an emotional connection
• Integrates her nick name
• And shows that you miss her

Surely you can come up with more creative sentences than this and I expect you to expand on my basic structure, don’t just copy paste.

Use Sexual Innuendos

• Innuendos
• Assuming she always wants sex from you

Sexual Innuendos

Sometimes she’ll accidently set you up and all you have to do is slam it in there. You should be looking for opportunities to use sexual innuendos, unfortunately they do need a platform to bounce off. For instance, if she was to mention anything that could be misinterpreted as sexual, then you can jump on it. Here’s a forward one, she says ”there’s a storm outside, my dress got soaking wet on my way back from work” you connect ”wet” with her getting ”wet” from being turned on.

Another basic example she says something about length of measurement or she mentions something that looks like the shape of a penis. This is quite self explanatory, you can figure this one out on the fly.

Assuming she always wants sex From You

This is another great one, you can just assume that she is always trying to seduce you, and call her out on it. The reason why I like this one, is that it can be thrown in anytime and doesn’t need to make sense.

For instance, she’s travelling to meet you and you send her a text reminding her that her sexual advances are not allowed tonight, because you are not that type of guy, and that she should stop pestering you for sex all the time (make sure it’s humorous).

Don’t Send Dick Pics or Ask For Nudes

I’ve tried this many times so you don’t have to, from my experience, this just doesn’t work very well. Sure you may want to get it started fast, nut this will just kill the mood. Remember she needs to be turned on and I’ve never heard of a girl being turned on by dick pics.

Take Ownership Of Her Parts

This has been a quite effective tool for you to use in my experience. I’ll often choose one of her body parts and call it mine. For instance, I have a girl that I’m seeing right now that has a nice bum. So, I call the bum ”my bum”, in the beginning, she would say the usual reply ”it’s my bum, not yours” in a playful way, but after a while she started to accept that it’s my bum haha.

In return, she decided to take ownership of one of my parts and every now and then mentions ”her part” no reward for guessing what that part is. Now, we are at the stage where I ask ”where is my bum” and she’ll ask ”where is my thing” (sometimes it feels weird saying dick, I totally get that).

Try Role Play

Role play can turn a girl on through text by showing your playful side. It’s also suggesting things that you and her could do together in the future, it’s designed to open her up and sometimes does. If she decides to play along, then you’re in a good position to escalate more through text. You can suggest getting married and having your honeymoon in an outrageously sexual location. Or doing some sexual act in public (I’m not saying that you actually do the sexual act in public) in an over the top way.

Tell Her What You Want To Do To Her

Tell what sexual act you would like to do to her through text. Remember to focus more on foreplay through text than just the sexual act itself. She is more likely to get arouse by anything connected to foreplay than if you sent something like ”I want to pound the hell out of you” or smash you or whatever. This is less likely to turn her on.

What’s Your Experience Turning Girls On Over Text?

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle (My Philosphy)
• What is indirect daygame
• What I say to Girls (Logistics)
• How to Write a PickUp field report
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
• Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid

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