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To figure out how to get her to cheat on her boyfriend, first you need to gather information on their relationship. And look for what weaknesses exist that you can exploit which could motivate her to cheat on her boyfriend.
Welcome to the dark side, you’re in the right place to find out strategies to steal someone’s girlfriend. There’s a girl you know who has a boyfriend, but you can’t help but think ”can I steal her?” ”are there specific methods I can use?”, then you find yourself searching this topic on the internet.
While society would like to brainwash you into believing that cheating on a partner doesn’t happen often and monogamy is a moral standard that all us little angels uphold.
But the hard truth is, women almost always have a lower value bet-male orbiter hanging around for the scraps and most so-called innocent girls are looking to ”monkey branch” to a higher status guy.
Most women are hypergamous, which means that girls have a biological drive to find the highest value male to reproduce with, in order to ensure their children, don’t only survive but thrive. You can’t blame them for this, it’s them only looking out for their own best interests.
Disclaimer : I do not recommend anyone to try break up a relationship. Nor do I want men to actively try to steal other men’s girlfriends. This is immoral by societies standards. This post is only for entertainment purposes.
Dave Lee
Why Women Cheat on their Boyfriend or Husband
- They have been thinking about leaving their current boyfriend for a while but haven’t had an opportunity to do so
- She wants revenge on her boyfriend
- The guy they cheated with makes them feel ”special”
- Boredom in a normal relationship
- She’s lonely
- Low self-esteem
- They are unhappy with their current partner
- Women cheat for sex (they like variety too guys)
- She is stressed and cheating helps her to cope
50% Of Women Have a Back-up Guy
Most guys hide their affection for her. If a girl is desirable, everywhere she goes, she is going to have other men looking at her with desire.
A women’s default reaction to men, is to reject them, simply because of the shear amount of attention they get on a daily basis. Try to show empathy by imagining the world from her point of view, almost every man she encounters would be attracted to her and try orbiting her in super friendly ways, continuously.
There are probably guys that she is friends with who are desperately attracted to her, though she is totally oblivious to how these guys truly feel.
Some show her their intentions and she keeps them as ”friends”. Imagine a friend of hers from work one day shows his affection for her. Even though she’s got a partner, he still decides to show his intent. If she overreacts, this could negatively affect her job, not to mention, she might be a little attracted to him too, or even worse, she could see him as someone to manipulate at her job for whatever reason.
Imagine it from her point of view, she cannot just burn every bridge, she can’t just cut off every guy that show’s his attraction to her, it’s just not practical. The most practical way forward would be for her to use these men, instead of burning every bridge. The hard truth here is that she would be attracted to
Before You Try Stealing A Girlfriend
From my experience, there are clear strategies that can be used to steal a girl from her boyfriend, but you need to do this subtlety with patience. If you move to fast and push too hard too soon, she will realise that you are a danger to her current lifestyle and reject you immediately.
Prove To Her You Can Keep a Secret
Unless she is literally in the middle of a huge domestic argument and you happen to meet her while she’s moving out from his apartment, or she’s in the process of breaking up with him.
This means she’s not really anyone’s girlfriend anyway, is she. Other than any scenario where she is separating from her boyfriend, she will want to know that you can keep a secret.
The last thing she wants is for a new guy (who she’s desperate to try out on the side) to swoop in and think that he owns her. These guys are a danger to her current living condition. Imagine a new guy gets jealous and goes to tell her boyfriend that she cheated, this is worst case scenario for her, so you need to demonstrate three things.
- You would never tell anyone about her cheating
- You are totally okay with being the 2nd most important guy in her life
- You are emotionally detached enough to leave without any drama, if she decides to end your secret rendezvous.
She is Still Having Sex With Her Boyfriend – Deal With It
Be realistic, in the early stages of stealing some dude’s girlfriend, you will only be her side dick. This means that she will probably have sex with him before meeting you and vice versa.
Yup, as crude as it may sound, if she comes to visit you and insists on a shower before and after sex, it’s to reduce the chances of either of you and her boyfriend smelling another man on her. Accept this before getting into this situation, you have literally zero reason to judge her.
Girls Who Cheat on Their Boyfriends Cannot Be Trusted
Once a cheater, always a cheater
The type of girl who would cheat on her boyfriend can never be trusted. Do you really think that you are special, is your ego so large that you think that she left him because you are literally the worlds greatest man?
I hate to break it to you buddy, but there’s nothing special about you and she can replace you the exact same way she replaced the previous guy.
Be careful, if you start dating her afterwards, she is likely to cheat on you too. Here’s some science on pair bonding. My understanding is, that the more sexual partners a girl has, the less likely she is to remain loyal to one man.
Stealing Girlfriends Strategy
- Tell her that you only want to be friends
- Tell her that you are MORE scared that anyone finds out than she is
- Let her know you are pre-selected by other women
- Don’t catch feelings for her during this period, or you are done
Ask to be Her Secret Lover
One line I use, even off the cold approach is ”I only want to be your secret lover” and I am shocked how often this works. While simultaneously letting her know that we can only be ”friends’‘ which means lovers, while projecting a careless attitude.
How to get her to Trust you
Tell her that you are MORE scared that anyone finds out than she is. The only way she will move forward with you, is if she has nothing to lose by experimenting with you. If she knows that you will take this secret to the grave, only then will she be willing to become adventurous with you.
Let her know you are pre-selected by other women, this is not the reason most men think it is. I’m sure you’ve heard that only assholes get all the girls. One of the reasons why this is, is because ”assholes” don’t get attached to girls, this means that girls can sleep with them without the risk he will become a stalker.
Don’t catch feelings for her during this period, or you are done. This one is pretty self explanatory.
Imagine you become clingy, then she tells you it’s over because she realised that she truly loves her boyfriend and that you helped her to realise that she made a mistake. If you are attached to this girl, it would hurt more because you are now closer to her than before starting this cheating process.
The emotions may cause you to do something stupid that you will regret later, understand your place, your job is to play ”side-dick” that’s all for the early stages. The ball is entirely in her court.
Plant Seeds Of Doubt About Her Boyfriend
This is the bet-orbiter strategy. An underhanded, somewhat dirty method.
Almost a decade ago, I was walking with an acquaintance of mine, he spotted a beautiful blonde. He rarely rubber necks, so I took notice, when she walked past with her friend, I started up a conversation with them and introduced my him to the blonde beauty. Turns out she had a boyfriend and loved him.
We got their contact information, then I gave my friend some dating tips from the dark arts on how befriend her, while planting seeds of doubt about her boyfriend.
Say these things to her about her boyfriend
- Your boyfriend seems too busy for you
- Is he dating that girl he’s always hanging out with?
- He parties too much
- Why can’t he afford to take you places?
- Does he respect you?
- He would be nothing without you
- He should do more for you
6 months later he invited her over for a party and became her secret lover, she later regretted it, then went back to her original boyfriend.
My Stories of Stealing Girlfriends
Before we get into it, check out my Bootcamps and Immersion pages to start learning how to meet and date girls. Here’s a brief story, I’m currently dating a girl who lives with her boyfriend right now, I used most of the methods above to achieve this.
She knows we are not serious and just comes over to sleep with me on a regular basis, it’s been happening for almost a year now. This is more common than you may think.
Another one was when I was preparing for my last hip replacement, I met a stunning girl in the shopping centre, she was living with her boyfriend back then too. I told her that I simply want to be her secret lover, two weeks later she came over to my place. We continued seeing each other for almost a year after that.
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- How to spot a fake dating coach
- How I got laid in Japan (epic post)
- Why Thailand is NO longer good for getting laid
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