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If you’re not the world’s most attractive Casanova, chances are that you’re more likely to repel some women, rather than draw them in. Well that’s what the bad dating advice for men is out there.

If you’re unsure what to say to women or how to act around them, chances are that you’ll be alone most of your life.

Not everyone is having enough sex, in fact there is a little incel explosion happening at the moment around the world, I’m sure you’ve seen the graphs. Approx 80% of all men under 25 yrs are struggling to get laid.

Even if you’re in a relationship, it’s still not always a given that you’ll be getting regular sex either. Sex-less marriages are on the rise, and this doesn’t seem to be slowing down.

Now, that’s enought bad news, I’m not trying to depress you, just giving you a reality check. The only way to defeat this slump you’ve most probably got yourself into, is learning game.

Luckily for you, this is what I teach, before resuming this post, check out a few of my best previous posts on how to get laid.

Here’s a few of the most common reasons why you’re not getting laid.

You Go to the Wrong Places To Meet Girls

Internet dating is a great thing. This allows girls to meet guys from all around the world, and it’s also a great way to meet people who are looking for intimate encounters.

However, it can also create a lot of tension, because women will always choose men who are in the top 20% of attractiveness. So, internet dating has in fact contributed to the latest incel armageddon, which means that I don’t recommend you using any dating apps.

If you’re single and have a lot of alone time, it’s time to get out and mingle with other people. This will allow you to experience and practice your social skills. Watch some of my videos at one mans life mission on Youtube, I promise they will help you greatly. 

You don’t have to like socializing, but remember there is a price to pay if you want to get laid, today is the best time to get out of your comfort zone.

To get good at game, you will have to approach hundreds of women before you get results, maybe thousands if you don’t get coaching with an expert like myself.

You should be happy with 1 new girl each week in the beginning, with proper training from myself, you could have several girlfriends at once.

Some girls are shallow, some are vain, and some are simply not sexually active (A sexual). To find the right girl, you have to talk to tonnes of women to hone your skills, then repeat. If you don’t like them, move on to the next one.

Here are some of my best posts:

• Cold approach is a lifestyle
• How to get a younger girlfriend
• What is indirect game
• How to spot a fake dating coach
• How I got laid in Japan (epic post)

If you want to learn more about the sweet art of cold approach, join my group, where I’ll have a chat to you before entering. Get my free video series and finally, if you are adventurous, try my 30 day challenge.

Your Standards Are Too High

Men who don’t get very much success, in my opinion, often have higher standards than guys who are having regular sex. I don’t know if this is science, it’s just something that I’ve observed.

It’s funny seeing black-pill guys using troll accounts criticizing the attractiveness of girls they see online, when in reality, they have never picked up a girl of that standard in their lives.

Don’t be one of them.

By living in an unrealistic worldview, you’ll end up with empty pockets and as a dissatisfied individual. This could make you bitter and isolated, due to loneliness.

There are some hot model-looking women out there who are tall, slim, and pretty, but the reality is they aren’t all perfect.
If you’re just aspiring for the ability to get laid, then you can’t be super picky about how hot the girl is.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying drop your standards, but if you’ve got nothing, anything is better than that right?

By having these unrealistic expectations, you’re going to end up empty-handed, bitter, and eventually give up. This is in fact, the black-pill philosophy. Simply put, lower your standards, at least in the beginning until you get better at this. Get some results under your belt, then rise your standards.

You are Not Taking Care of Yourself

If you’re the type of lazy guy who allows your room to become a mess, then you’re probably not going to dedicate much time to taking good care of yourself either. There’s a good chance you look just as messy as your room, yeah I know about the whole Jordan Peterson cliche.

Do something that you love to do, such as learn how to DJ or perform in local coffee shops or maybe something intense like bungee jumping.
Get started with cool hobbies that you enjoy doing. Learn yoga, become a guitar player, or become a skydiving instructor. An active lifestyle is one key to attracting new women, especially when you’re able to do things other men can’t do, this may help you to stand out.

You can also attract sexual partners by making lifestyle changes that exclude eating fast food and junk food. Also, being a good host will help you attract potential partners, take care of your friends. Make these lifestyle changes to improve your chances of attracting a sexual partner.

You Don’t Understand What Women Want

According to some psychologists, men are most likely attracted to visual cues, such as a woman’s appearance, as it turns them on. Women care more about the status of a man than their physical appearance. Women care about more than just his looks.

They also care about his emotional connection to them, having the ability to build an emotional connection, will increase your chances of getting laid.

They want to know who he is, what his fears are, and what his expectations are. Having sex without having a meaningful conversation is like having sex with someone for the first time.

You’re Not Confident

If you’re not convinced that you’re attractive, it will come out of your body language. Try avoiding the idea of being the most attractive person in the world and focusing on what you like. This will help you avoid ending up empty-handed.

Being confident in yourself can help you get noticed and get the attention that you deserve. Having this confidence can also help you avoid getting rejected and start talking to someone else.

Women want a man who knows himself well, and who will never change his opinions or feelings for anyone else. This is why women often test men to see if they’re confident.

They also do not like men who agree with everything they say. They want a man who doesn’t change himself for the sake of being liked. Having good self-esteem can help you get noticed, and it can also make you look sexier. Being confident in who you are can also help you avoid getting rejected.